New Year, More You - Deconditioning & Designing your dream life [PODCAST]
Listen as I sit down with Lauren from Open to Alchemy to chat the practical magic of Dream Life Architecture, the evasive idea of Purpose, & well, everyday Alchemy...
Someone once told me, at the end of one of my workshops, that it felt like I’d just given them a masterclass on the art of being…
& I thought to myself wow, how cool is that? Bc it tied together so well these themes I wax poetic on nonstop — ancient wisdom, divine feminine values, living by design, the soft life, working smarter not harder, etc…
Then a few months ago, I was invited by Lauren Ivy, someone I recently connected with through community, to come onto her show “Open to Alchemy” to discuss the glory that is all things Dream Life Architecture, and the same concept came up again — shifting from a mode of needing to “do” more into one of “being” more (of who you truly are)…
It was originally going to go out for the New Year, but because we both felt so inspired & so lit up about the convo & felt it made for a perfect way to collectively end the year and transition into the future, she decided to publish it early!
So, ready for that ‘New Year, More You’? I got you, boo…
Listen in for what Lauren is calling ‘a total energy recalibration’ — in this episode we discuss:
- What is a dream life architect?
- Becoming creative
- Deconditioning with the Dance of the 5D
- Human Design, Astrology, Numerology and Life Path #s
- Determining your purpose
- Working with Energetic blueprints
- Flowing as a multipassionate/Mani Gen energy
- Creating a container to explore your ideas & creative yearnings
- Manifesting without attachment to the outcome
- Mastering a daily ritual of Embrace, Embody and Express
And lots more!
I share a concept central to the work I do as a Dream Life Architect (my shiny new title 🤩) called “The Dance of The 5D” — a framework, system, and process for identifying & ripping out at the roots any inherited domestication, deconditioning & reprogramming your mind & energetic field, experiencing individuation, and (in case that wasn’t enough) designing the life of your dreams & making magic happen IRL
Lauren & I got so carried away with our conversation, and were flowing in & out of synchronistic tangents on different topics (so much fun) — that post-recording, I realized we actually didn’t get around to covering all 5 of them! 🙀🙀🙀
Not to worry, though — I included a write up on it at the bottom of this email!!! 🥳🥳🥳
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And when Lauren told me about her Mani Gen fear of being a “Jack of all trades, Master of none” the train got off the track before bringing home the point I was making before I went off on my tangent — that it’s much more fun & feasible to see yourself as a Jack of all trades, Master of ONE — the most important one, yourself…
In fact, we vibed so well that I ended up dropping a sneak peek into another system I’ve been working on that I’m *so* excited to share in full with you soon — it’s an acronym, it’s witchy, and it’s a juicy one that’ll help you bridge the gap between knowing & living your design, amongst other things…
Until then my love, enjoy the episode and when you’re done, come back to finish learning the art of…
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DECONDITIONING & The DANCE OF THE 5D 🩰 ~
Essentially, as a Dream Life Architect, I help people — women, visionaries, creatives, geniuses — learn how to tap into, operate and master their own energy, as well as speak the language of the universe (the energy around & within them) so that they can co-create their best life & do real life magic…
5D Consciousness = Unity Consciousness.
“A realm where magic is possible, where universal love is all there is, and where heaven really IS here on Earth” - How to Lead a Badass Business from the Heart
Where you recognize your individual role as a part of the whole, and how to harmonize those energies:
Conditioning = disintegration of the self.
Deconditioning = re-membering the self & soul.
“How can we move from feeling discontent to creating new lives and new worlds? In other words: How can we begin to live from our imagination instead of our indoctrination?
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If we want to know who we were meant to be before the world told us who to be—
If we want to know where we were meant to go before we were put in our place—
If we want to taste freedom instead of control—
Then we must relearn our soul’s native tongue.
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We are all bilingual. We speak the language of indoctrination, but our native tongue is the language of imagination. When we use the language of indoctrination—with its should and shouldn’t, right and wrong, good and bad—we are activating our minds. That’s not what we’re going for here. Because our minds are polluted by our training...”
-Glennon Doyle, UNTAMED
Training, aka conditioning, aka socialization, aka indoctrination, aka domestication, aka programming…
If conditioning is about homogenization & conformity then deconditioning is about distinctiveness & a diversion from the status quo.
→ Interrupt the program
How to do the Dance of The 5D 💃🏽:
It’s called a dance bc you very well may revisit steps as you go along, and practice makes progress, + you’ll need to establish your own rhythm and pace and move through this process intuitively, checking in with & listening to the wisdom of your body along the way..
DEMYSTIFY - Cutting through & decriminalizing layers of perverted language to find core truth (detaching from false & half truths perpetuated by society). Sifting & wading through murky waters to get to the root cause of dysfunction. “Putting a finger on the problem”. How are the patterns of the collective unconscious reflected in your life? → look to what (in the world, your life, etc..) brings you disdain, feelings of disgust, disappointment… what have you been denying yourself & what have you demonized bc deep down you truly desire it? And maybe haven’t found proof in the physical world yet that you can/should/deserve to have it?
DECIDE - What is useful? What is inspiring? What is simply not for you? Getting away from what feels disempowering or restrictive, using your discernment when taking in new ideas and information. Deciding what it is that you want to do with your newfound awareness (to ignore or to continue the dance?). What is in your best interest/for your highest & greatest good? Is what you’re married to (systems, ideas, thoughts, patterns, beliefs, modes of being, etc...) freeing or repressing you?
DEFINITENESS - Purpose, Thinking for yourself. Define what meaning & weight words & concepts hold for you. What do/will you stand for? Define your desires & who you are, . — “Giving structure to language, influencing your own perception of reality in a manner that serves your highest good rather than undermines it. Your words (tying together your thoughts & beliefs & influencing your actions) anchor you into whatever reality you choose” —unknown
DESIGN - Design your dreams. Your environment. Your life. Your work. Your relationships. Your Self. + also, Tap into your unique design — the energetic blueprints that makeup your aura, essence, personality, life themes & patterns, superpowers & opportunities for growth — and allow that to be a compass to your inner truth. What have you always wanted to do?
DEVOTION - commitment to the plan, Stop doing the shit you hate doing, feel like or think you’re "supposed to" do or are expected to & start making radical change by doing something different - what you want, what you feel called to, and what you’ve decided and designed for yourself — no matter how scary, weird, or unknown it may seem
That’s it — short & sweet, like me, sometimes :)
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So, the last time we spoke, we talked about why I believe so strongly in and promote The Magnetic Art of Self Worship (aka becoming SAINT SOVEREIGN, the God of your own universe) as a catalytic tool for empowering yourself to live your best life, on your own terms…
Today, we covered the very basics of Dream Life Architecture — the journey from envisioning to actualizing that life of your dreams and creating the world you want to live in simply by living the life you were uniquely designed to experience…
Before we go on, I’d love to know — what’s the ONE (1) radical change you want to experience in your life in this next chapter, and ONE (1) radical shift you’d like for the entire world to experience??? 👀
Tell me in the comments! 👇🏽👇🏽👇🏽
And then stay tuned bc up next, I’m gonna share with you a system I channeled for how you can make them both happen without breaking a sweat or a nail (the system I briefly mentioned in the podcast episode — wait, you did play that, right?)